Hi Kiss Diary, I'm victor and I'm completely and utterly inlove with my friend's girlfriend. They've been going out for two years and are on rocky grounds. The other day it looked like they were going to split up but they're still going out, only it seems more casual. She doesn't appear to be happy with the relationship as he shows very little affection, and I have reason to believe he only wants her so he isn't alone.
The other day, me and the girl seemed to just sorta.. click. I've always been there for her when she was having relationship troubles with my friend, but we started texting a lot about other stuff.
I eventually let it out that I fancied her like mad, and she admitted she had similar feelings for me.
Since then, it's been a nightmare. We've both resisted the urge to go beyond the platonic boundaries for over a week now and I'm getting very worried it's going to affect my exams, or worse, our health.
We've been talking about it and, despite spending so long beforehand telling her she should stay with her boyfriend, I'm beginning to creep into the unwanted territory of having a secret relationship. I really, really don't want this, but then again, I want to be with her more.
To avoid being shunned by him, and our peers, we've ruled out telling anyone else about it, but the only choices we have left are her breaking up with him and, after a few weeks, I ask him if it's okay for me to start dating her... or we stop these feelings. Being responsible for the splitting up of my friends is a position I would never have imagined i'd be in, and I hate myself for thinking about it. But the again I don't know what i'm going to do if I have to resort to the latter decision.
Please I need to know how to go about this. Your honest advice will be grateful appreciated. Thanks
The other day, me and the girl seemed to just sorta.. click. I've always been there for her when she was having relationship troubles with my friend, but we started texting a lot about other stuff.
I eventually let it out that I fancied her like mad, and she admitted she had similar feelings for me.
Since then, it's been a nightmare. We've both resisted the urge to go beyond the platonic boundaries for over a week now and I'm getting very worried it's going to affect my exams, or worse, our health.
We've been talking about it and, despite spending so long beforehand telling her she should stay with her boyfriend, I'm beginning to creep into the unwanted territory of having a secret relationship. I really, really don't want this, but then again, I want to be with her more.
To avoid being shunned by him, and our peers, we've ruled out telling anyone else about it, but the only choices we have left are her breaking up with him and, after a few weeks, I ask him if it's okay for me to start dating her... or we stop these feelings. Being responsible for the splitting up of my friends is a position I would never have imagined i'd be in, and I hate myself for thinking about it. But the again I don't know what i'm going to do if I have to resort to the latter decision.
Please I need to know how to go about this. Your honest advice will be grateful appreciated. Thanks
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