COMMUNICATION ISSUES
So many people have broken up because of this. Communication is very vital. The more you talk to yourselves, the more you understand each other.
In a relationship, there MUST always be a constant flow of communication. When you assume 'he knows what to do' or maybe you conclude 'she's big enough to take care of things', then you're creating a divide between the two of you. Never assume your partner knows everything. No one has that grace. One of the ways you can benefit from a relationship is by knowing what the other person thinks. Remember, your minds can not become one, no matter how close or intimate you are with your partner, except you communicate and think alike.
Don't be lazy in your thought pattern. Assumption is a mental laziness. It makes you not to think. It makes you to neglect the 'why' factor. Communication eliminates assumption. Ask questions. Know their feelings. You're not in a relationship for personal gains. You're there for your partner's happiness. And one of the most effective ways to know what makes them glow and blossom is communicating with them.
All these things are very effective when the person is near. But when he/she is far, it may not be as effective as seeing the person face to face and discussing on a one-on-one basics. When you're far apart, you may not communicate as effectively as you would when you're together. There are certain things that shouldn't be discussed on phone or via social medias. People have now so misinterpreted and watered down the true essence of relationships that everything is discussed on social medias. You now see couples fight and curse on their partner's walls and post annoying pictures on their timelines. That is not reasonable in any way.
Don't wait for your partner to bring up a topic before you discuss on it. Always be ahead of the relationship by productively discussing about ther feelings, dreams and visions. Life decision discussions shouldn't be discussed on social network platforms. It should be a face to face thing because actions speak louder than words.
People always think that 'talking' is the only form of communication in a relationship. No! That's just one way. The most effective way is through body language. You may be able to picture your partner's response when you talk on phone or chat on social networks but your success is ALWAYS limited. That's what long distant relationships do to you.
So my advice is, stay together so that your communication skills and pattern will be very productive and your relationship will grow. Remember, no matter how well you think you know your partner and how well you think your relationship is growing, there is always a better way. And communicating one-on-one with your partner as frequently as possible is the best way to attain a happier relationship.
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